How to Create the Perfect Online Dating Profile

Stand Out in the Crowd (With a Little Help From Your Mate)

Creating an online dating profile that actually gets matches isn't rocket science—but it does require a bit of thought. Whether you're a seasoned swiper or new to the dating app scene, crafting a profile that shows the real you while still being appealing can feel like a balancing act. And when it comes to Tandem, the double dating app, you've got twice the opportunity to impress (or twice the pressure, depending on how you look at it!).

Let's break down how to create a dating profile that gets results, with special tips for making your Tandem profile shine.

The Basics: Profile Perfection 101

Before we dive into Tandem-specific tips, let's cover the universal truths of good dating profiles:

Photos That Tell Your Story

Lead with your best: Your first photo should be a clear, friendly shot of your face
Show the real you: Avoid heavily filtered images that don't look like you
Variety matters: Include a mix of close-ups, full-body shots, and activity photos
Group photos: One or two are fine, but make sure it's obvious which one is you
Recent pics only: That amazing shot from three years ago? If you don't look like that now, don't use it

Bio Brilliance

Keep it positive: Focus on what you want, not what you don't want
Show, don't tell: Instead of saying "I'm funny," write something actually funny
Be specific: "I love music" says nothing; "I collect vinyl records and never miss a local gig" tells a story
Mind the length: Too short seems lazy; too long seems intense—aim for the goldilocks zone
Conversation starters: Include something that makes it easy for matches to message you first

Tandem Profile Magic: Double the Fun

Now for the Tandem-specific tips that make double dating profiles pop:

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work

One of Tandem's best features? Your mate can fill out your details if you're too lazy. This is brilliant because:

Your friend often sees qualities in you that you don't recognize in yourself
They'll highlight your best features without your self-consciousness getting in the way
They might remember interests or stories that you wouldn't think to include
It's often easier for others to brag about us than for us to brag about ourselves

Take advantage of this feature—sometimes your bestie knows how to sell you better than you do!

Location, Location, Location

Unlike some apps that limit you to nearby matches, Tandem lets you search in a very wide area (over 60 miles). This means:

You can cast a wider net, especially useful if you live somewhere less populated
Weekend trips become possible dating opportunities
You're not limited to the same pool of people you keep seeing on other apps
You can set your location preferences based on how far you're actually willing to travel for a good match

Make sure to think about your true mobility when setting this up—a wider search radius means more potential matches!

Prompt Perfection

Tandem allows you to add 3 prompts which others can like to start the conversation. These aren't just any prompts—Tandem prompts focus on your synergy with your mate. This is your chance to:

Show off your friendship dynamic
Highlight shared interests or hilarious differences
Tell the story of how you met or your favourite memory together
Demonstrate why you make a great double date team

Choose prompts that showcase both your individual personalities and how you vibe together. Remember, people are matching with both of you!

Wingperson Wonder

Here's a unique Tandem feature: If your mate is taken, they can still join you as a wingperson. This means:

You get all the benefits of double dating without your friend needing to be single
Their partner doesn't need to feel threatened—your mate is just there to help
You still get that confidence boost from having someone who knows you well by your side
Your taken friend can focus entirely on helping you shine

Make sure to highlight in your profile if this is your setup—it helps set expectations!

Profile Do's and Don'ts for Tandem

DO:

Show the dynamic between you and your mate
Highlight activities you'd enjoy as a foursome
Include photos of you both having fun (but also some individual shots)
Mention if one of you is taken and just there as a wingperson
Show your personalities both individually and as a duo

DON'T:

Make it unclear which person is which in photos
Focus on one person much more than the other
Use old photos where you look completely different now
Be vague about what you're looking for
Forget to proofread (spelling mistakes are an easy fix!)

The Perfect Tandem Profile Checklist

✓ Clear, recent photos of both people (and some together)
✓ Engaging prompts that showcase your friendship
✓ Location preferences that reflect how far you'll actually travel
✓ Individual sections that highlight what makes each of you unique
✓ A hint at what your ideal double date would look like
✓ Clarity about whether you're both single or one is a wingperson
✓ Something specific that matches can comment on to start a conversation

Final Thoughts

Creating the perfect dating profile is all about authenticity with a strategic edge. With Tandem, you've got the added dimension of showing not just who you are as an individual, but how you interact with someone close to you—which actually tells potential matches a lot more about you than a solo profile ever could.

Remember that the best profiles don't try to appeal to everyone—they aim to strongly appeal to the right people. So be yourselves, show your unique friendship dynamic, and get ready for double dating adventures!

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